Three ‘red flag’ phrases you should think about leaving your partner if you hear
According to a relationship expert, there are three ‘Red flags’ phrases that means you should call it a day in a relationship;
Convincing you that you’re ‘too good’ for them
if they tell you this, the expert explain in tiktok that this a nice and subtle way of letting you know that they’ll hurt you.
Another relationship expert went further by saying; “When somebody has a person that they think is too good for them, they are not just gonna let them go, so if someone say that to you as an excuse to not get in a relationship then that is a complete rubbish.”
She added that if you hear these words, then say: “Thank you very much but this is not good enough for me. I’m off to go and find somebody that knows how fabulous I am”
Calling all their exes ‘crazy’
This is another sign of a ‘Red flag as the expert went further to explain that this highlights that they show no accountability, as they claim to be perfect their self and show no respect to their past relationships.
She went on: “It takes two people in a relationship, so always remember that.
“Also, if all of their exes were crazy, well, what does that say about them?
“What were they doing in that relationship for them to be eliciting that kind of behaviour, if indeed they even were?”
Highlighting that you don’t want to be their next ‘crazy ex’, hearing this sweeping statement should be enough for you to jump ship before it inevitably gets worse.
If they say they’re ‘not looking for something serious
Think of this as an out for them, as the expert urged viewers not to take this as ‘an invitation or challenge’ to ‘prove’ that you’re enough.
“They are telling you that if you stay with them, then they are gonna hurt you,” Williamson revealed.
She added: “If someone is being that incredibly honest and up front to tell you that it doesn’t matter how perfect you might be right now, they are not in that headspace and is only gonna hurt you.”
Williamson then said that if you still choose to pursue them, then you need to ask yourself: “Why am I chasing somebody that has told me they are emotionally unavailable right now?”
She explained that it could be due to childhood trauma, or a toxic previous relationship that taught you to work for someone’s love.
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