How to Love a Woman
Loving a woman is a balance between loving yourself and loving another.
It’s a balance between being your best individual self and placing your whole being into someone else’s hands.
Be someone she can look up to.
She wants to be proud of you — give her a reason.
She wants to feel her heart swell a little inside her chest whenever she thinks of you, or tells her friends about you. Not because of your good looks, or how much money you make, but because she admires who you are.
She wants to look up to your guiding principles and your values, to your work ethic and your drive.
She wants to look up to your passion and your sense of purpose, and she wants to recognize you as a steadfast man of his word.
Show her you’re excited about life.
She wants you to inspire her.
She wants to see life as a source of endless possibilities, and the way your eyes light up when you talk about your next big project, or your biggest dream, is where she finds inspiration to pursue her own.
Show her your excitement for life and she’ll make it hers. She will root for you, and do everything she can to support you and help you succeed — as long as you come home to her at the end of the day She
Come home to her.
She wants to be your safe harbor.
Make sure she knows coming home to her at the end of the day is more important to you than whatever you’ve been working on out there. As long as she knows that, she will not stop encouraging you to pursue your dreams with everything you’ve got.
Make coming home to her your prize for a job well done and day well spent, and she’ll do her best to make you feel like a hero returning from the battlefield.
She’ll tend to your wounds and heal your pains if only you lay them at her feet.
