how to approach a lady on the first day
CONFIDENCE IS KEY to approaching women.
For many men, approaching a pretty girl they like can feel as if they have an anxiety disorder. The nervousness and anxiety can become so bad when trying to “pick up” a pretty girl, that you might actually experience symptoms that are similar to those of a panic attack!
these are some experiences you might face if you are not bold;
Hyperventilating
Jitteriness
Racing thoughts
Racing Heart Beat
Feeling sick
Stuttering
Flustered
Words come out wrong
Difficulty breathing
Lump in throat
Difficulty swallowing
Mind drawing a blank
Butterflies in tummy
Fear of stuffing up
Fear of rejection
Sweaty palms
If so, this guide will help you over come your fears and approach beautiful women with ease and confidence. No fear of rejection, no sweaty palms, no overwhelming anxiety. Just “hey baby, how’s it going” with no problems of any kind!
Simple Facts About Women – Most women are just as nice and friendly as you and me, they are not mean to strangers and will NOT slap you or scream “Pervert” when you approach them.
Check Your Confidence Level – When it comes to dating, a confident guy always has an edge over shy guy. As a matter of fact, you could rarely see woman approach a guy and ask for a date. Guy will make the first move, most of the time.
Eliminating Negative Self Talk – Your subconscious mind will often try to do everything within it’s power to prevent you from doing what you want by telling you all kinds of nonsense.
Creating Positive Self Talk – What you ask yourself WILL directly affect your self-esteem and confidence therefore increasing your anxiety when faced with approaching a woman.
Building Your Confidence – There are many ways to build your confidence, you can work out to look and feel great, try to always look your best, or even drink a little alcohol to get a little “Liquor Courage”. What I’m going to talk about is how to build your confidence by way of affirmation.
Preparation Before Approaching Woman – Have you ever approached a girl, got her attention and then had nothing to say? That can be a big braw back because silence and awkward moments will NOT help you get anyone’s phone number.
Planning Your Conversation Topics – Planning your conversations, where were we? That’s right, getting out the pen and paper and planning what you will say, starting with your greeting.
Dating Conversation Topics Examples – I have quite a large number of questions I have banked up that I use often on people. But I won’t list all of them here. Besides some of them may not be suitable for me to mention here and I don’t want to offend anyone.
Proper Breathing to Calm Down – If you hyper-ventilate or find it hard to breathe when approaching women, then this part of the book can be of great help to you.
Exercise to Reduce Anxiety and Depression – Exercise gives you more energy, helps you sleep better, makes your heart stronger, helps your circulation, increases your lung capacity expand, makes your muscles stronger.
In the beginning of this section, I gave you some simple facts about women. I reassured you that most women are just like men, they are not evil rejection machines that are out to embarrass every guy that approaches them.
Women are not the enemy, in most cases men are their own worst enemy when it comes to approaching women.
It is your negative thoughts, anxiety and fear of rejection that stops you from getting the girl you like. Of course you already know this, so what’s my point? In fear on rejection you may even miss your true love.
